The Most Neglected Element in Making Big Decisions

Every decision has a corresponding consequence that is long lasting. Sometimes the greatest impact on our lives is felt by a continuing series of small decisions in the right or wrong direction. 

But there are big, one-time decisions we make that impact the trajectory of our lives in huge ways.

What kind of decisions? Decisions that move our family to another state. Taking a new job with a different company. Choosing a university. Making our closest friends. Deciding on the mode of educating our kids (home, public, or private). Whether to get married, or who to marry.  

What is needed to make a good decision in these circumstances? Information. Prayer. Wisdom to sort through the options. Discernment. Good, godly advice.

But I think there is one element we frequently forget we need.

The Israelites lacked it as they looked over the river at the Promised Land and saw the obstacles and dangers of choosing to follow God into the land. The results were disastrous. An entire generation lived with the consequences of their decision. 

This weekend we're looking at the decision making element they lacked and we often neglect to consider as we look at Number 13-14. We can learn from their mistakes. And we can learn to live with the mistakes we've made along the way. 

Invite a friend who is facing a big decision, and join us for the worship service. 

 

Fear and Love, Together

“And now, Israel, hwhat does the LORD your God require of you, but ito fear the LORD your God,  ... to love him ... for your good? (Deuteronomy 10:12-13)

Fear and love, together. How? 

It’s hard to offer a great analogy of this because there’s no one we relate to that’s like God. 

So, for a moment, take out the relational and think of how you would feel about a fire in the woods on a cold winter night. It’s what will cook your food and warm you up. At the same time, it will burn you if you put your hand in it. Love and fear, together. 

A little more relational but still falling short is this: You’re walking down a dark street, going to your car, the street light is out. You hear steps behind you. You’re nervous. But then a police officer turns the corner right by your car. You feel relief and appreciation for that officer. You get into your car, you get on the highway, you look in the rearview mirror and you see a police car. All of a sudden you’re afraid. Am I going too fast? Did I use my signal when I changed lanes? Love and fear, together.

Now God. He’s a consuming fire. Fearing God is more than respect and reverence. It is that, but it’s also fear. He’s a consuming fire. You may say, “I don’t fear MY God.” Okay. 

Yahweh. The God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. God in three persons: Father, Son, Holy Spirit. This God, if you know him and know about him, you fear him. And you love.